How to make yourself the desire of your dream man?

A lady once said, “It feels good to get attention from men, but it even feels better to know that I am too good for most of them”.
Ladies! The way we are being treated in our relationship with men lies solely in our hands. It is time for us to rediscover our true self, to get back the respect from men which we’ve lost in time past.
Many a time, we long for love, for care, for affection and attention from the opposite sex. These forces are natural because God created us to be loved, it is in our nature to do so else he wouldn’t have formed woman of the rib out of the side of man, under his arm to be protected and near his heart to be beloved.
The problem is, we search for love at the wrong places, with the wrong persons without considering if we deserve that type of love readily available at a lower cost.
In the course of our love life, we surround ourselves with too many doubts, insecurities, fear, and unanswered questions about ourselves but we still have not sat down for once to think it through and decide on what we truly want in our relationships.
Getting into a relationship is not all what it takes for increased self-worth, for self-discovery and a road to a purposeful life.
Most times being single seems difficult but it might be what we need to discover who we really are. We deserve better from our man.
We shall henceforth throw more light on some of the doubts, the fear, and the questions about our relationships that has lingered for a long time in our hearts.
Some of them include:
• No man wants a pure woman
• I can’t say no, I can’t afford to lose him
• No sex until we date for about six months
• As long as I remain a virgin, romance is not a bad idea
• Sex is no big deal after all, others are doing it
• It is too late for me to get out
• My friends would see me as old fashioned
• This time, it’s going to be different
• Guys would always be guys
• One more time and I will never do it again
• He will leave if I stop the sexual fun we have
• There are no decent guys anywhere
• I am afraid of being single
• I can’t survive without him (financially)
• He would harm himself If I leave
• I can’t be chaste with him, he knows all my dirty pasts.
• It is impossible to stay pure.
I bet we have at least one of these doubts bothering us in our relationships.
The good news is, I shall take my time to discuss them one after another.
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Thanks for your time and kindly leave a comment if you are a lady willing to make positive changes to your relationship.